If you are worried about a friend's drinking, which step should you take first?

• A. Involve a trusted adult
• B. Talk privately
• C. Express concern privately
• D. Encourage seeking help

Answer: (B)

Talking privately to your friend is the first step because it opens a direct, confidential conversation where you can express care, listen to what they’re experiencing, and assess how serious the situation might be. When you approach them calmly and without judgment, it reduces defensiveness and shows you’re on their side, which helps them open up and consider next steps. This private dialogue gives you a sense of what’s going on and whether they’re willing to seek support. After that conversation, you can decide to stay with them through options for help or involve a trusted adult if needed. If there’s any immediate risk to safety, or if the friend isn’t receptive, bringing in a trusted adult or professional for support is important.